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Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Teenage Pregnancy

As i observed the situation nowadays a lot of questions are hanging on my mind because i didn't understand why teenagers nowadays are very different from teenagers ten years ago. Is it because bad influencers are everywhere?or is it the parent/s should be blame for their rebeld kids? or we should blame those teenagers who trashed their lives. Honestly i don't know the right answer for it since we are all different when it comes to our opinions, aspirations, and beliefs but let me elaborate things the proper way they used to be. My chosen topic is about "teenage pregnancy" which is not a surprised anymore since a lot of teenagers or young girls experienced it or experiencing it fortunately i never experienced such thing. People around us are very judgmental when they saw a young pregnant girl and the worst insult a girl could get is when people thought that she was a slut that's why its happened to her but come to think of it not all cases are like this. Some teenagers get pregnant because some of them were abuse, some of them make friends with the wrong people or some of them are part of a broken family. There are some cases that when a teenager feel they were alone and no one to lean on most of the time they searching for that attention to their friends, boyfriend, or with other people whom they don't know that much. It's hard to accept but that's the sad part of life when you longing for the attention from the wrong people and end up with another problem that result to an early obligation. Teenage pregnancy is one of the sad situation a young girl can bear but still life must go on and since it's already there we should stick to it and be matured enough to face the biggest responsibility which is being a mother to your child. Though we can call that a big mistake still we should look at the brighter side of your life which is learning from your own fault because acceptance is the only thing we can do to surpass all our baggage in life. Keep in mind that God wants to gauge your strength taught you a lesson that you must learn to be more wiser the next time. Remember also that not because youre already on your adolescence stage you know a lot of things as long as you never learned your lesson you will always in a wrong path of life.

3 comments:

JAMJARSUPERSTAR said...

I think it's a mix of bad parenting (looking at the kids around my area, it's definitely the parents) and bad role models (I blame two people: Pete Doherty and Britney Spears). Seriously, if the parents get a grip on their kids instead of letting them run around like they're feral then maybe we wouldn't have a problem with yobs! I'm sick of them! Anyway, nice blog. I'll come back to view it again soon.

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Unknown said...

greetings!
nice blog..
well jamjar is rite its the bad parenting that comes into play ..
I think the kids should be given a real picture out the about the big bad world instead of letting them discovering themselves and regretting later ...
I am adding your blog in my blog roll.
take care .keep bloggin.
Mera Angle

tori18 said...

i realy like your blog...im about to be a young mom as well. check me out http://18andpregnant.blogspot.com