I always believe that trust is the foundation of every relationship because without this we cannot expect true love in return. Some of my friends experienced this and honestly everytime i saw them crying with a stupid man i can't avoid to be mad at them but still since their my friends i just gave them advices and help them to forget those things. As we all know it's really hard to get back to the time you were before when you feel happy on his arms and trust him with all your heart until one day you found out that everything was a big lie. One of the main reason why some relationship didn't last long is because a man was involved with another girl or vice versa that is why most of the time you cannot take the situation and the only one thing that comes to your mind is to separate yourself with that person because you feel betrayed. And when the trust was already lost they say that only one person should be blamed was the one who betrayed the other one. But let me remind you everyone that trust is easy to earn at first but its hard to gain once again specially when the feeling of that person has already been damage because when trust was lost the love and respect of that individual to you was also lost so you should be careful in every action you made. Because once it lost you cannot expect the same degree of love and respect from that person and its really hard to live in this world specially when you know that there's someone outthere who feel bad because of you.
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Teenage Pregnancy
As i observed the situation nowadays a lot of questions are hanging on my mind because i didn't understand why teenagers nowadays are very different from teenagers ten years ago. Is it because bad influencers are everywhere?or is it the parent/s should be blame for their rebeld kids? or we should blame those teenagers who trashed their lives. Honestly i don't know the right answer for it since we are all different when it comes to our opinions, aspirations, and beliefs but let me elaborate things the proper way they used to be. My chosen topic is about "teenage pregnancy" which is not a surprised anymore since a lot of teenagers or young girls experienced it or experiencing it fortunately i never experienced such thing. People around us are very judgmental when they saw a young pregnant girl and the worst insult a girl could get is when people thought that she was a slut that's why its happened to her but come to think of it not all cases are like this. Some teenagers get pregnant because some of them were abuse, some of them make friends with the wrong people or some of them are part of a broken family. There are some cases that when a teenager feel they were alone and no one to lean on most of the time they searching for that attention to their friends, boyfriend, or with other people whom they don't know that much. It's hard to accept but that's the sad part of life when you longing for the attention from the wrong people and end up with another problem that result to an early obligation. Teenage pregnancy is one of the sad situation a young girl can bear but still life must go on and since it's already there we should stick to it and be matured enough to face the biggest responsibility which is being a mother to your child. Though we can call that a big mistake still we should look at the brighter side of your life which is learning from your own fault because acceptance is the only thing we can do to surpass all our baggage in life. Keep in mind that God wants to gauge your strength taught you a lesson that you must learn to be more wiser the next time. Remember also that not because youre already on your adolescence stage you know a lot of things as long as you never learned your lesson you will always in a wrong path of life.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Graduation Day
In the Philippines March is the most busiest month of the year for the students, why?because most students are preparing for their graduation and it's so nice to know that eventhough life nowadays were so hard and difficult still many students specially those poor ones are willing to do everything just to ensure that they will be part of the prestigious graduation march of commencement exercises. Lately i attended my cousin's graduation and i would say that my university is far from their institute because most of students in their school were came from not so rich family but i still amazed because i saw in their eyes the excitement of the said occassion. Though the graduation was simple still all the people behind it gave their best shot in order to assure that the graduates and parents would be happy on that day but i guess the most important part of that said occassion was when the parents saw their son or daughter got their diploma and proclaimed graduate. I'm so surprised because some parents were cheering and clapping and some were teary-eyed when they heard the name of their kid on the stage. Well, in my case before when i graduated from my college education unfortunately my mom didn't attend my commencement exercises for the very reason that she's not here because she worked abroad in order to sustain our needs and yes she's a single parent but still i'm very proud of her and i know that she's also proud of me. Unlike other parents who were excited on that day my mom also was so excited to the point that she called me every hour because at last i already finished my college education which is very important for her and also for me. 
I always believed that education is the key to success no wonder a lot of parents worked hard to support the education of their children because it's the only thing that they can give to their children in case they don't have that wealthy life. I think the most important achievement a parent could give to their children is education so we must treasure that and don't forget to thank our parents for their unlimited support to us.
Monday, March 24, 2008
Blind Child
If there's one difficult situation that's hard to face that is to be a blind person. Although i'm not a blind but still i'm very emotional everytime i saw blind people walking down the street and still find ways on how to become productive. I totally admired them because of their dedication to their work inspite of the situation that they are into. Last week, holy thursday i got the chance to watched a documentary despite of my busy schedule and guess what the topic is all about blind children and their parents. I was so amazed by that documentary entitled "blind child" its a must seen documentary because it inspires me a lot and i know that a lot of people will be inspired too if they watch it, though those children accepted their fate because their blindness is inborn that's why its not that had to accept their situation but for their parents its hard to accept that their child would be like that. When i saw their parents crying when interviewed by a reporter i also started to be emotional because you would see in their eyes how hard to have a blind child but like most parents they still accept their children wholeheartedly because they still a blessing from God. According to them at first they asked God why their children because theres a lot of bad people out there and as far as they know they didn't do anything wrong through the years but as time went by they realized that God want to gauge their faith. Those children also interviewed by the reporter and he ask those children how's their feeling and i was so amazed because those blind children are still very positive and intelligent despite of their situation according to them they know that they're blind but still they want to continue life because they have wonderful parents and friends who will be there for them. Those blind children also go to school everyday and its nice to know that they know how to participate in some activities and one thing more they know how to use computer.
I guess we should treasure what we have right now there might be trials that comes our way but like those blind children we should be positive all the time and continue to pray to God and thanks Him for everything. We should not loose hope because as long as we live, as long as we breathe there's still a hope and we can except a brighter future if we just believe..
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Mother's Unconditional Love
As we all know our mother is the only person we can say that will never betrayed us because for our mothers we are their jewels that need to guide, support and love unconditionally without expecting anything in return. For me my mother is the most important person in my life because i know i will never go wrong if i would obeyed her for the very simple reason that "mother knows best". Our mothers expect us to be in good condition all the time, there are times that are mothers tend to be overprotective but i guess its normal specially if our mother is single parent. Sometimes son or daughter tend to be rebeld and do things that might hurt his/her mother but remember that in times of trouble our mother is the only person who will help us and embraced us regardless of our behavior. If were going to define the meaning of mother's unconditional love its really deep to the point that we can't think the meaning of it, why? simply because mother's love is rooted in their heart that no one can understand and exceed the love they can give to their children. We should cherished and love our mother wholeheartedly because they need to be loved and respect all the time because no matter we go through or we went through she's the only person we can considered as bestfriend.
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Saturday, March 22, 2008
Hopeless
In this world we can't avoid to experience misfortune and i think all of us need to experience to stumble once in order for us to learn our mistake. Actually its the one thing that makes us more wiser and stronger but i suggest that we should not allow ourselves to be at the bottom all the time. It's really hard to fight for our right and fight for what we believe if we don't have the guts to face all those people who underestimate us and put us down. There are times we feel hopeless and we want to give up because we can't see the light anymore and you know what i've experienced that but i just keep in mind that no one can help me but myself so i found myself praying so hard and tell our God to please help me to surpass all the problems i have. I know that i can't see him physically but believe me you will feel his presence and for me that was so amazing because at the end of the day i know i have Him. Problems are part of everyday lives but we should remember that if we want to be on the right track we should pray to God with all our heart and ask him to guide us and lead us all the time so we can never go wrong..
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